Stormy Weather of Your own Creation.

Today during a shared Reiki session with 4 amazing people I was offered a vision that I am choosing to share with you…

There is an icy sea that has many ships afloat upon it. There are storms, strong and tangible close to each of the ships. Some are tornado like. Each of the ships is under threat. Yet I am at a distance, watching the Drama, but not part of it. I questioned this, should I be helping others, do I need to be closer, to board their ships. The resounding answer was NO! You are exactly where you need to be.

Thinking about this I realized that each person has their own storms and sometimes they are of their own making. They create the storm and wait, call and demand help. I don’t need to enter their storms. I can best assist by staying at a distance and offering Love and Kindness without partaking in adding to the storm or being sucked in to the storm.

This is such a positive affirmation of Peace and Love. The power in offering a safe place for that person to be themselves without the dramas, and without the upheaval. Being able to stay out of other people issues means that You can offer more positive energy to the world though a more upbeat and happy state of mind. When they are ready to move into calmer waters they will have you there waiting with great support and Love.

The other positive message that stood out was that we can identify when we are creating our own storms, when our thinking and placing meaning on situations as fact distorts our trust in other people. Steps we can take…

  1. Identify the difficulty person, situation…
  2. What is your thinking? How are you feeling with this thinking?
  3. Does this thinking make the situation easier or harder?
  4. Is there another way to think about this? (the answer is always Yes!!)
  5. By changing your thinking can you minimize the affect this difficulty has on you?    (hopefully yes)
  6. Changing your thinking will not mean that the difficulty disappears and it still may need to be dealt with, but now it can be dealt with in calmer way and you are more likely to get what you need out of the situation.

This means that a really difficult situation can be de-escalated and you can feel more on top of things more quickly. Whenever you catch yourself re-telling a story of hurt try the above and see if you can up with a more gentle and kind story that soften the impact on you. The beauty is then that the people around you will not feel dragged into a storm but can still empathize and support you through your difficulties.

So excited!!!!  This means that whist we can create or feed the storms in our lives, it also means that we can create and feed the Peace and Stillness in our lives. This is worth screaming with Joy from the mountain tops. We are the creators of our own experience. When we are more self-aware we can begin the journey to a more peaceful place full of calm, tranquility and loveliness.

Wishing you a more Peaceful Journey xx

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About R Congues

Funny enough, this blog has become the expression of my hopes, dreams, love and experiences. It came about because of the situation I discovered I was in, and I am delighted to see it grow and heal into something different: I am a parent of two children, one who has experienced severe anxiety that became disabling in all aspects of their life. I am a teacher of Maths, Science and Religious Education with a Masters in Special Needs Education; I am a qualified Reiki master, with a love of art and creative experience. I am not a professional in the fields of psychology or medicine. (If you are interested in these perspectives there are many internet sites to use.) I am simply expressing my experience in my own unique way.
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One Response to Stormy Weather of Your own Creation.

  1. Janet Congues says:

    Beautiful Cilla

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