P is for….

P is for…

Parenting this joyous spirits of light, in a world of confusion and conflict, supporting them in finding their way of living and guiding them to be the best person they can

Partnering the wonderful people in your private life, choosing to Love them as each day dawns, seeing the goodness and beauty within them

Present moments when you really don’t know what is going to happen next, you navigate blind folded trusting the universe that everything will work out and support your’s and everyone else’s growth this life time.

P-plates that my son just passed and acknowledging the growth that he is going through. Making his mark and embracing his own individual mark on his world; and as a parent accepting this process and allowing it to unfold as needed.

Possibilities that exist without being able to know that they are there. Knowing that what we think, speak, listen to and do has consequences on the formation of these possibilities.

Privilege of living and experiencing the ups and downs of this life we are living. Embracing it all with the knowledge that we can only be ourselves, the truth of us, and no-one else’s expectations and wants can ever really drive who we truly are.

Prioritizing my needs above the needs of others, but doing so with care, compassion and consideration; being thoughtful, kind and caring and trying to find a way which is a win-win for everyone. Sometimes that means looking carefully at what my needs really are and why they are important; if they are attached to an old belief system that no longer serves me, it is time to deal with that and re-discover what I truly need in this life.

Pain that supports movement in a new direction and allows the opportunity to discover more about the truth of who we really are. When we are in pain we fall back on our default patterns to get us through, and that reveals much of the barriers to growth in our physical, emotional, spiritual and mental bodies.

Persistently being open to change, even when it is scary because it’s full of the unknown. Grounding yourself and being assured that you are supported means that whatever comes your way is a gift, wrapped in an outer covering that you get to uncover and if you get knocked down you choose to get up, every-time! This is true persistence.

Partying and celebrating with huge gratitude all that is good in your life, be it with a champagne or a vita-gummy. The party is the same, an acknowledgement that life is worthwhile and there is no certainty of what will happen next.

Peaceful ways of being, accepting the past the present and the future, for they are all simply moments in time in the journey of your life. Peace is a way of being solid as a mountain in the midst of a raging storm. The inner you does not sway from your truth, you are fast and steady, you are Love.



About R Congues

Funny enough, this blog has become the expression of my hopes, dreams, love and experiences. It came about because of the situation I discovered I was in, and I am delighted to see it grow and heal into something different: I am a parent of two children, one who has experienced severe anxiety that became disabling in all aspects of their life. I am a teacher of Maths, Science and Religious Education with a Masters in Special Needs Education; I am a qualified Reiki master, with a love of art and creative experience. I am not a professional in the fields of psychology or medicine. (If you are interested in these perspectives there are many internet sites to use.) I am simply expressing my experience in my own unique way.
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One Response to P is for….

  1. Joy says:

    I meant to read this last night but I conked out early and came back today. So glad I did! This is a great post with a lot of truths weaved through and definitely some I needed to hear today. Thank you for sharing:)

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